meowhiru-koizumi asked: Hi anon! I'm kinda shy, too, and since I'm not involved in Greek life I don't have a wide circle of friends. Feel free to message me and maybe we can talk!
Friendless at UF?
I have been at the University of Florida for about a year and a half. I have made no friends. I can go days without talking to other people. I am shy and a little awkward. What should I do? I want friends but even acquaintances would make me happy at this point. I miss having conversations with people.
What you’re describing is one of the best and worst aspects of UF. There are days where I love walking around knowing no one will recognize me and I can just slip in and out of class unnoticed. However, it can get lonely sometimes.
This may sound incredibly cliche and dumb, but find an interest that you like and then connect it to a school club. Most of them are really interesting and you can attend meetings without feeling too much pressure. Once you feel comfortable enough to speak up, then you will.
That’s how I found friends since I lived off campus.
I wish you the best of luck, and seriously don’t worry about putting yourself out there. What I’ve noticed in the past 3 years is that Gators can be quite friendly and rarely bite.
herr-doctor asked: Glad to see you've returned. I hope all is well with you. :3
Haha, yea midterms will do that to you!
Hey Gators, send me your problems! It’s a Friday night and I’m drunk enough to post this late at night!
Ps: Thirsty Thursday is on Friday !
herr-doctor asked: This may be a bit of an odd question, but are you willing to meet your followers? Like I said, I would love to get you a cup of coffee, but I don't want you to feel pressured or in a threatening situation. Oh gosh, now I'm embarrassed. >///w///<
Hey no pressure,
I just wouldn’t want to disappoint! I’m currently drowning in my mid-terms, and will be until next week.
Maybe, I can be in certain spot and if people want they can come meet me? Haha that feels so strange to type…
Gators…let me know!